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I have been married to the same beautiful lady for over ten years. We discuss it some and both agree that love only gets better. I am so thankful she is part of my life, without her my life would be incomplete. I hope you that all of you find a partner with which to share joy. Overlooking each others faults and thinking positive about your partner goes a long way towards love.

Here in Manitoba we have snow and today was brilliant with sunshine. The snow just positively glowed with sparkles. What a lovely sight! Who could want more for the Christmas season? I am so glad I took the time to notice.

I was having dark thoughts today and I could not seem to shake them. I was out working alone, but I got down and asked the Lord if He wouldn’t deliver me once again. Not so long later my son came wandering up and he stayed close to me and we talked some. Later I realized that those thoughts were gone, my prayers had been answered, my son had redirected my thoughts. I am so thankful that I can say small miracles happen and that my children can bring me peace (and they don’t even realize). I want you to recognize the times in your life when you have been delivered from some mental bondage and remember them instead of the darkness before deliverance.

Today you can choose to observe the universe and its beauty. From the stars and planets, to the mountains and streams, to the smells of cooking or of flowers, to the feel of your child sitting quietly on your lap; everything is yours to take in. Focus on the beauty around you and try to forget the ugly. So many times when we can only see the ugly because we are ugly inside. 

I did not look it up but I there is a quote that says something like this: the pessimist complains about the wind, the optimist expects the wind to change, and the realist adjusts his sails. If you are going to think positive you need to realize that you cannot change the issues around you – all you can change is you. May your sails be adjustable and may you find a new and enthusing journey each time the wind changes. 

I love the stories in the Bible of forgiveness that Jesus extended to the people. He has forgiven me so much. I don’t want to dwell on my mistakes (for fear of feeling depressed) but rather I want to praise the Lord for His mercy. Some people have broken relationships because of unforgiveness and I battle these things too, but, above all, I desire a fixed relationship with Jesus and I want to be positive about His salvation so that others may feel that they, too, can be forgiven.

Although we have not had serious health issues with our children we have had times of flu or colds when or children were listless. I know some of you out there are all too familiar with sick children whether it be asthma, cancer, broken bones, emotional problems, etc. The other day one of our older children was making our 1 year old giggle time and again. I was in the other room but my ears were drawn to it. I am so thankful for laughter of children, it is like music for the heart. For those who have not heard laughter due to whatever issues I hope someday soon it will change for you, as they say absence makes the heart grow fonder; does that apply to children laughing? Studies have shown that on average children will laugh close to 300 times per day and adults only around 20 times a day. I think all parents (and grandparents) should find something to laugh about with their children, it would do everyone’s heart good. 

Some times we struggle with blaming God for our problems. The widow wonders why her husband had to die. The alcoholic wonders why God does not deliver him from his addictions. The cripple wonders, of all the car accidents that happen, why he is disabled. The unemployed wonder how they will pay the bills. The victims of mass shootings no longer wonder where God is but the rest of us question why. The lonely grandma in the old folks home wonders what purpose her life has. And so on. However, our Father is not a God of problems but a God of solutions and He is interested in you and your problems. When we were living in sin He sent His son to die for our sins, that we could be free. I challenge you to think believe that God is love and to think positive thoughts about what he has done for you. To dwell in what could have been, what should have been, what should be, and who hurt you will not help. The only way you can be happy today is to be thankful. 

I hope to start making a difference in this world by sharing my little bit of wisdom. I want myself and others to see the power that we can access by being thankful. I feel like I am the unqualified for this since I am so unthankful. However, if I share my inspirations of thankfulness with others maybe I will be able to achieve a higher level of every day thanksgiving, that can change my life (and yours) into a fully cheerful outlook. Please stand by while I prepare myself and this website for good things to come!